persuasion & manipulation

How I persuade and Manipulate myself.

“When you cant persuade – manipulate instead”

You either work for somebody who sells something, or you sell something directly by yourself. Yes, sorry, that’s it.

The system we live under is made very simple for us, in terms of how we accumulate money. We either sell our time for money or we create money using our own time, outwith the constructs of a normal everyday 9-5 job, that the vast majority of people voluntarily, participate in each day.

Sounds fun doesn’t it? Nope, it’s not, it’s really not fun at all. Sure, some jobs are better than others, but once you take a step back, and look at it, from a 100% honest POV- You will probably spring back in sheer terror, and wonder, what the actual fuck I am doing this for?

If you don’t wish to be part of the majority, you must learn to generate income via your own means. As much as this may pain all your deep thinking, pondering types (myself included!) It must be done! Or else, your fate is going to be destined to the vile clutches of the “Normie-Dome”

Does anybody remember Bill Hicks? A Very “out there” comedian for his time. Sadly he passed away in the mid-90s, but I always remember when I first discovered him around 2010. His view on marketing and self-promotion was not exactly a positive one. He referred to people who work in marketing as “sucking satans cock” If I remember correctly. Back then, I looked up to Hicks, because, on a soul level, he resonated with me and what I was going through, at that time of my life. A complete reset of all the conditioning I had been living under, since birth.

I understand where he was coming from, and why he thought this way, but I also reminded myself, he was a very popular comedian and would have made good cash touring the USA & Abroad. Whoring yourself for money is not wholesome in theory, but what is the regular everyday person going to be doing either today or first thing on Monday morning? Yeah, whore themselves for the money.

Its a case of “paint or get off the ladder” Sink or swim, produce or perish. There are many ways you can do this, and also before we go any further. I’m NOT advocating anybody reading this goes and impulsively quits their job. All I’m saying is, if you don’t have a long-range battle plan or anything else going on outside the daily grind, your life is going to be on average, mediocre at best. Sure it “Could be worse” You will probably say, but that’s not really a good way to attack this limited time we have left.

The sands of time are dripping away fast from you. Keep a skull nearby, remind yourself one day, your head will just be a wee pokey & bony outline of a once meaty face, a relic of yesterday. What are you going to do now? Tick tock, goes the wristwatch, on the little rabbit’s thin & pale arm, as he peeps into the looking glass………………

I wish to make a disclaimer before I continue – The advise I am going to articulate now is for myself first and foremost, this is very important to everybody reading. I’m not a “dude-bro, big bank gains bro” or a “stoic star superstar” Far from it.

I write in a very cynical manner that oozes with wrath, pain & the random etchings of a tortured soul.

I don’t want to sell anybody a pipe dream, I can admit, in the past, I have been fooled, and it is easier to be fooled than admit, you’ve been fooled, so please appreciate my honesty meter being turned up to almost 100%

key points I have learned and always try to remember.

1. Respect is rarely “earned” It normally has to be “taken”
2. The smaller the circle, the bigger the vision.
3. Accept energy affects everybody, be selective with yours.
4. Nobody will think about your life, more than you.
5. Do not disclose your plans or success. You’re just like everybody else – even when you’re caked out.
6. Business Partnerships are the only ships that don’t sail. Somebody will always do more work, but it’s still split 50/50 “Fuck you, pay me half”
7. All money is debt, but some debts are better than others, leverage this wisely. Assets Vs liabilities.
8. Do NOT lend money to family members or close friends, the borrower is a slave to the lender, you don’t want that setup with people you care about emotionally. GIVE but do NOT lend.
9. If it comes easy, it’s usually not worth it.
10. Be ruthless when required. Nobody will ever respect or seriously consider a perpetual people pleaser. It pays to be the bastard sometimes.

That’s my own version of the ten commandments, not that I’m some religious zealot or staunch Christian man, but I do believe in some of the values they perpetrate.

I think these are good questions to ask yourself from time to time.

What are the most important aspects of life?

Other people and time. Not in that particular order. Reason being – You won’t get any better stimulation in life than in other people, fellow humans. Sure, some isolation is good when you’re trying to get work done, such as writing a novel, or whatever project you are currently producing – However, Humans need social interaction with each other, its unhealthy to never do this. Modern society is engineered that way to disconnect us, its a trick to do this electronically, cutting off us, from the deep & ancient electromagnetic energy fields us humans all share, and feel deeply in this wild & twisted “meta- matrix”

What is pride?

Pride is what keeps us in bondage. It keeps us in debt via monthly payments. Pride is what keeps working, middle or whatever class you can think of, in that same class forever. Car payments are probably the most common in western nations. Its really sad how people put a huge ball and chain on their necks, for some tin can on rubber wheels that drops in value – like a rock! If you can let go of pride (especially at a younger age) I promise you all, your life will turn out better by the time to your into your 30s and beyond’s.

On the other hand, Pride is a good thing, it’s required in certain situations like interpersonal relationships (between you and friends & romantic partners) Its not always a bad thing as such. It needs to be yielded in a particular manner. But I guess this is true of all the aspects regarding the human ego.

You can go and look at the actual data that’s available. Most millionaires in the USA do not have any debt and it took them on average, at least a decade (sometimes two) to become official millionaires. They all had the same habits. Its 95% behavior 5% mathematics when it comes to actually build wealth.

Be sensible overall and only ever take tiny risks with a very small (2/3%) percentage of your total capital. You cant short circuit real wealth. Its got to be planned out. Every single penny has a job. Account before you invest or gamble. I know this may sound boring, and it will be, but, the laws of mathematics state, its the most foolproof method to becoming rich. Of course, by all means, increase your income, this will help speed up the process, but, please, always live on way less than you actually need. Have you any idea how millionaires went broke trying to live the Billionaire lifestyle? It’s easily done, people. Just be wary of that.

“If you want more freedom in later life – sacrifice pride at a young age”

What do I really want from life?

Life is defined by many things, but what are we searching for really when you break it all down? What is the point of getting up each day and living life? I’ve often found when I reach a new goal, I have a feeling of accomplishment, but, it disappears after a while and I’m back to working on a new goal. It’s funny how it works, you get to the “promised land” then soon you discover, only more questions and new avenues to explore.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this blog post.

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